Experts in relationship and sexual health note that if a partner rarely or never kisses during intimacy, it doesn’t automatically mean a lack of love or attraction. Several factors could be at play:
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Personal habits or upbringing – Some people were not raised with affectionate behaviors and may not instinctively kiss.
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Stress or distraction – Mental preoccupations, fatigue, or stress can affect how someone expresses intimacy.
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Health or comfort issues – Mouth sores, respiratory issues, or anxiety can make kissing less frequent.
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Communication differences – People show affection in different ways; some may prefer touch or words over kissing.
Relationship specialists, including those from the American Psychological Association, emphasize the importance of open communication. Partners should discuss their needs and comfort levels so that intimacy feels mutually fulfilling.
If the lack of kissing causes distress, professional counseling or guided discussions can help address mismatched expectations and strengthen emotional connection.
